If you think about it, the first thing to go in a strained marriage is laughter and the first common connection between a couple is laughter!
Love thru Laughter presentations are a combination of my inspirational family stories, clean comedy from life as a parent and a pastor, and voluntary therapeutic laughter exercises designed to build and rebuild bonds between brides and grooms.
If your marriage ministry banquet is looking for some edu-tainment that will offer both clean comedy and uplifting encouragement, let me invite you to surf through a few of these pages to help you decide if my Love thru Laughter presentation is right for your group…
Therapeutic Laughter Consulting…
I am, believe it or not, an actual Certified Therapeutic Laughter Consultant, trained while working as a hospital chaplain for patient support in healing groups.
While serving as a hospital chaplain I became a Certified Laughter Leader offering therapeutic presentations for patients, care-givers, workforce programs and for just side-splitting laughs through banquet comedy that involves voluntary audience participation in therapeutic laughter exercises with a mixture of hilarious story comedy for a unique evening of wholesome funny entertainment!
It was while working as a hospital chaplain during the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina that I noticed that patients who suddenly found something to laugh about also seemed to turn the corner in their healing process. That experience led me to an extensive study in the medical benefits of humor and laughter, even becoming a Certified Therapeutic Laughter Instructor and a frequent banquet comedian.
One day while working with Hurricane Katrina victims, as a hospital chaplain, I was struck by the quick turn-around one patient took, when he suddenly found something to laugh about.
On a follow-up visit, he began to tell me about how he was thinking about something a comedian once talked about. As I was listening to him tell the story, I wanted to jump in and finish for him – because was reciting an old George Carlin comedy bit, called “Stuff.” The bit was one of my favorites!
He shared how he realized that all he lost, was just stuff. He said he got to thinking that he really is thankful that none of loved-ones were lost. I was simple nodding my head, trying not to interrupt. Then he started to recite the comedy bit again, and this time he stopped and said, “Rev, you’re smiling…You don’t know who George Carlin is do you?”
I said, “George Carlin? Of course I do. Before I was ‘Rev’ is was ‘Irev’ – I grew-up in the 70′s near Toledo, Ohio – I know George Carlin.”
He then said, “Well, then you would remember the bit he did on ‘Stuff.’ We both rushed to recount that comedy bit and laughed in his hospital room as we took turns reciting the lines to that comedy bit!
I was amazed by the emotional and physical healing that took place for him after that unscheduled session of comedy, humor, and laughter.
That encounter set me off on a serious two year study of the dynamics of humor and laughter and its place in our emotional, physical, and spiritual well being.
In that process, I became a Certified Laughter Leader and discovered medical research and therapeutic practices of laughter that goes beyond entertainment. If you have an interest in helping yoru audience stress less and live better or work better, please visit through my speaking links below.
In my presentations I like to share one of my favorite findings by Dr. Lee Berk of Loma Linda University, who released the results of a twenty year study that found first time heart attack victims who were prescribed a similar diet and drug regiment, with the exception that half of the group added a daily 20 to 30 minute period of laughter.
Half were told to watch a funny sitcom on television, a comedy, or to spend the time reading a humorous joke book, as long as the 30 minute period was focused on humor and being able to laugh.
Of the group who were prescribed laughter, only 8% suffered a second heart attack. While the group who were not prescribed daily laughter had a 42% recurrence rate of a second heart attack!
On a CNN medical report television program, Dr. Lee Berk said it best when he commented that had he invented a pill that got these remarkable results, he would be on his way to Stockholm, Sweden for the Noble Peace Prize in Medicine.
While laughter offers no guarantees as the ultimate cure-all, we do know that the medical and psychological benefits of laughter have been cited in the top medical research journals. Here is my top 10 list of such benefits that have been mentioned in these journals:
1. Reducing cortisol, a stress hormone that locks up metabolism and hordes fat. (American Journal of the Medical Sciences)
2. Increases endorphins, the body’s opiate feel-good hormone. (American Journal of the Medical Sciences)
3. Eases muscle tension, good for rheumatism. (Southern Medical Journal)
4. Increases the body’s T-Cell count, immune system cells that kill bacteria. (Journal of
5. Increases the body’s Lymphocyte Blastogenesis, helps the immune system work faster. (Journal of the American Medical Association)
6. Improves respiratory conditions, aids in ventilation and helps clear mucus plugs.
(Journal of the American Medical Association)
7. Increases blood circulation and rise in oxygen and nutrient levels. (Journal of Biological Psychology)
8. Improves blood vessel functions and circulation. (University of Maryland)
9. Increases catecholamines, which boost mental alertness and responsiveness. (Journal of the American Medical Association)
10. Reduces the rate of cellular decay. (Journal of the American Medical Association)